Thursday, October 6, 2016

The Soil of the Home

"20 times a youth pastor says, “You need a time of prayer/Bible every AM.” Yawn. One time a parent says, “I love my AM time with Jesus.” Done." -Richard Ross tweet

As a youth pastor of 10 years I find this statement to be true. The students who pass through student ministry with parents that do not show any love/time with Jesus in the home typically do not follow through a life of following Jesus once they are done with student ministry. This is not always the case, as many in the church also "adopt" students like spiritual orphans. Grandparents, adult volunteers, aunts and uncles, all have played a huge part in guiding students through harsh spiritual terrain.

For this post, I wanted to focus on how the home does in fact have spiritual impact on students. In particular, I want to focus on the Parable of the Sower found in Luke 8:4-15 as scriptural context. The basic idea of the parable is that a Sower is throwing seed out to be planted, but the seed falls to various types of ground. In each type of ground the seed is impacted. Let's examine it like this:

Seed= Word of God/Gospel/Jesus

Road soil and Thorny Soil
Road and thorny soil share a similarity. Both soil is a heart that hears the Word, but due to spiritual warfare taking place, the hardships of the world, or a hard heart it is taken away. Perhaps in the home a student faces great hardship of spiritual warfare (divorce, abuse, neglect, etc) or their is no acceptance of Jesus at all. Imagine this student coming to church or a student ministry with all his/her baggage and the Word of God penetrating through this heart. We have many of these and the biggest thing they need to allow them to even receive the gospel are people who will help make their "soil" good. This can happen by Jesus followers attempting to reach the family unit and bring the to Christ. It can be that the student is a spiritual orphan and in need of a significant Jesus following adult to reach his/her life and cultivate.

I am reminded of a young man I once worked with who was hearing the Word and finally in distress looked at me and said, "How am I supposed to believe God has a plan for my life when that plan involved sexual abuse, being taken away from my momma, and going from foster home to foster home still experiencing abuse?!" It took significant adults to invest in his life, to "adopt" him to cultivate his heart. This is a lifetime process for this student.

Rocky soil
 Rock soil is a heart with no foundation or cultivation. Joyfully hears the Word, but with ease it slips away to the world as there is nothing for it to take root of. I believe many of our Christian homes actually are rocky soil. We joyfully read some Bible to our kids when they are young, say a prayer around the table, and attend church, but true cultivation of the Word is not there. The challenge to live differently in front of our children, to pray about all situations, to study the Word together and bring others into the home to share in this life are not rocky soil homes. Why? Because these are the components to cultivate the "soil" to make it ready to receive the seed of the Word.

Good soil
A heart that has been cultivated to hear the Word and is open for planting and growth to happen. Just like a plant must be given good soil that offers nutrients, be watered, and receive sun to grow properly; so does the heart that will accept the Word planted. As mentioned above the components to help create good soil are more than mere Christian rituals. They are life changing attitudes and actions. Consider cultivating the home as good soil where more than just mere reading of Scripture happens, but study and discussion. Where prayer is more than a dinner time ritual and in hard times and good times prayer toward the King of Kings is lifted in adoration of Him! Where other hearts from Road, Thorny, or Rocky soil can come to see what "Good Soil" can be and help cultivate the soil of their hearts to be good and receive the Word of God. This will require sacrifice and time. Both seeming missing in both quantity and quality in our homes today.

Be A Cultivator
I write this because as a youth minister we are only given so much time with students a week. Much less than they get in school and much less than they get at home. In addition, we are faced with the task of reaching all these various hearts in our ministries and maintain the soil of our own hearts and home. Parents we need you to be a cultivator of good soil in your home. Not for the sake of your children alone, but for the sake of others who will not find it in their own. I call on parents to step up to a challenge of discovering what life could be like with a rich soil of the heart to allow the Word to take root and grow deep in our homes. Even more, seek those who need spiritual adoption to be cultivated too! Reach students, but reach their families as well.

Friday, May 27, 2016

Create A New Culture

"The only way to truly transform culture is to create culture." -Andy Couch

I have had two significant impacts this past week that led me to think about culture, the gospel, and our impact as believers in Jesus. The first is reading the memoir of hip-hop artist Lecrae. His book was gritty, challenging, transparent, and thought provoking. The second was a Vision Tour of the city of Denver through the North American Mission Board in search of a place to begin a new mission opportunity. While on this tour we met several church planters and heard their stories of mission for the gospel. Both the book and the trip impacted me separately, but also worked in tandem to reveal a fresh look at cultural engagement as believers.

The Book
Lecrae has been a culture changer since his career as a hip-hop artist began. He revolutionized the Christian hip-hop world and made incredible impact by packing theology driven lyrics to music that started to sound more like hip-hop heard on the radio. Eventually, Lecrae found himself in a place caught between two world, two cultures-  the "Christian" and the "secular". The result was a gospel-centered artist who began to take the message to the world. As he has put it before, he started making music for the church, now he is making music from the church. His sound and lyrics have changed, but the message is still clear. He explains that the change happened when he started engaging the world differently. He states in his book, "...being a Christian is not just about being saved from something but also being saved to something. Following Jesus doesn't just save us from a less fulfilling life or eternal separation from God. It also saves us to a life that can radically transform the world around us through the power of God." This quote was the key to opening my mind a little more. I've known what he says for a long time, but something rang even more true now.

The Trip
While on the Vision Tour we met pastors who were trying desperately to engage a culture that cared very little for ideas of church, gospel, salvation, etc. Over all, the people they were engaging were in the city for fun, escape, and fulfillment most which could be found in the activities the city offers. However, the one thing that was looked for and could not be fully found was community. Each pastor stated the majority of people they come across would leave Denver after a few years because they were lonely. They may know people, but rarely on a deeper level. So, these pastors began to create community, true biblical community, built on love, care, sacrifice, and connection. One particular story stuck with me. The pastor made a connection with a person in the community and this person and his wife were expecting their first child. After a relationship was built and the couple was nearing their delivery date the pastor asked if he could get some people to bring them meals to help out. The man was astounded that someone would even do that. He even said I've never experienced something like that before! Even more incredible was the church (just a handful of people) committed to providing three meals a week for three months!! In many churches I've been a part of, we are lucky to get a full week filled.

What does all this mean?
For some of you this may mean little. You may be looking for the next controversial blog about something that can cause a stir. Or you may already know what I am describing and perhaps are living it out. For most, I bet we haven't thought much about our culture and how the gospel engages it. Well, we have likely thought about telling the most people we can about Jesus (which is right and good) or we complain about how the world is going to hell in a hand basket(weird analogy thinking about hell as a place of fire; that hand basket would get burned up...). That's just it though! We do a great job complaining about culture, being absorbed into the culture, or copying it. What happens if we actually create it! Christians were some of the first to care for orphans, widows, and the ill. We were once a people at the forefront of building orphanages, hospitals, places of care for the outcast. Christians were once at the forefront of art; depicting the gospel through music, paintings, sculptures, literature, etc. Some are still doing this, but I fear we have stopped being culture makers and are culture complainers, copiers, or wrapped up in the culture. We are not to be separated from culture, we are not to create just a sub-culture, we are to be culture makers! We should be creating a culture that is dynamic in love, justice, grace, service, fellowship, meekness, and ultimately Christ. Practically, I think this dynamic culture making happens when families adopt or foster children (even the hard ones) as they show the value of life is more than just a baby in the womb. We see it when we live financially at a particular means and give away the rest to those who need it. Dynamic culture making happens when we are willing to tell our children they can go to the farthest places of the world, even dangerous places, to reach others for Christ.

The biggest issue of creating a new culture is starting. For most of us, it will involve getting out of our comfort zones, it will involve sacrifice, it will involve the unknown. However, it is our calls as believers to be culture makers as we are called into the mission of Christ to reconcile all things to Him. (2 Cor. 5:17-21) We have to start somewhere, the question is where are you going to start?

Saturday, May 21, 2016

Love the Assembly, Hate the Sinner?

So, I'm not the best at blogging regularly, but when God wakes me up in the morning with ideas and thoughts I tend to listen and write.

Perhaps part of my thoughts come from various books I have been reading and my consistent time in Scripture as God speaks. In the Christ Centered Exposition Commentary on 1 Timothy, the author reveals that "Out of the seven billion people in the world, only one-third claim to be Christian. That leaves us with 4.7 billion people in the world today who are on a road that leads to an eternal hell. And two billion of those 4.7 billion unbelievers have no access to the gospel." (111) I suppose this reality stuck with me because I was left to ask why. The commentary was focused on how affluence can negatively affect our view of sharing Christ. I, however, wonder if we actually love our church community (The Assembly) more than we do the unbeliever(The Sinner)?

Thom Rainer, who has authored many books and created a program to help churches revitalize states that once a church becomes inwardly focused it loses it's mission. His blog post states the following,

"But churches can lose their outward focus and become preoccupied with the perceived needs and desires of the members. The dollars spent and the time expended can quickly become focused on the demands of those inside the congregation. When that takes place the church has become inwardly obsessed. It is no longer a Great Commission congregation."

Of course and inward focus is vital to the flourishing of the church too, but how does too much inward focus happen and what are the results?

Program trumps Spirit
Evangelistic efforts of a church must be programed in many ways. Churches must focus their efforts in a particular mission field- community, state, nation, and world- that would require planning and effort of program. In addition, learning ways to share the gospel with people that follow a particular program carries great benefit as well. However, I fear in our culture that loves to compartmentalize we miss the fact that we are called to be on mission at all times. Our Great Commission found in Matthew 28:18-20 reveals that Jesus tells His disciples to "go". The idea is better understood, "as you go" meaning continuously practicing. Have we in the church programmed so well, that we have taught our people that you can only "go" when you go on a particular mission trip or "outreach" event of the church? In addition to program we must teach that we develop a spirit, a mindset, of "as you go." Each and every opportunity in the workplace, at school, in our neighborhoods, in the store, etc. should be embraced with a spirit of reaching others for Christ.

We've Been Hurt By People
All of us experience hurt by other people both believer's and non-believers in Jesus, but I wonder if that leads to a hardened heart against those who don't know Jesus. I once knew a teenager who experienced hurt from a person at his school. He knew that the other student was not a believer and was destined for a place separated from God eternally. Because of the hurt received he decided in his mind not to share the gospel with the student because the other student, "deserved to go to hell."Whoa!! Thankfully, by God's grace, the Spirit convicted this young man and I was able to walk him through that. But, can we indirectly do the same as we either get hurt from others or when we attempt to share the gospel and are ridiculed we step back? We may step back in fear, but maybe secretly we simply write someone off and just accept they will go to hell. Even in rejection we should still pray for those who hurt us, we are called to love those who persecute us for the means of that person possibly coming to know Jesus as Lord and Savior.

We've Grown Spiritually Fat
Inward focused churches and people love discipleship and fellowship. I know, cause I can get that way. Discipleship and fellowship in many ways are for the church to encourage and lift up one another in Christ, but in their full purpose is to actually bring people to a saving knowledge of Jesus. Acts 2:42-47 reveals church life of the inward focus. Prior to these verse Peter has preached and reached out to people through his message. At the end of the chapter, the apostles and disciples have devoted themselves to one another in discipleship, fellowship, and service. It was sacrificial, counter-cultural, and full of life. The result, "And the Lord added to their number day by day those who were being saved." Discipleship was intended to train believers for the purpose of reaching out. Fellowship and service in the church should be something so different from the rest of the culture it is reaching out. In fact, we should be finding ways to invite "outsiders" into our fellowship to experience the life and Spirit of Christ in our relationships with one another. The acts/processes of discipleship, fellowship, and service were never an end in of themselves. They are a means to reach in and out. Instead, many in the American church simply consume in these acts/processes and continue to grow spiritually fat never exercising their faith in Jesus to reach others.

We've Starved Ourselves Spiritually
As a believer we are in a continual state of growth (2 Pet. 3:18; Eph. 3:17-19; 1 Pet. 2:2; 1 Tim. 4:15; Eph. 2:10) or at least we should be. However, when we fail to grow in Christ (which is an oxymoron) it effects how we view others, our world, the mission of the church, and our ability to share Christ. Study in the Word, theology, perhaps sociology, our culture, and from Christian leaders all aid in our growth. The Word is first and foremost in the growth of the believer and the others simply help. If we are not learning what Jesus has called us to, how to put it into practice, and take the next steps in growth we starve spiritually. The result is a shallow believer (maybe even not a believer at all) who has no understanding of how to share Christ. Even more, we can starve ourselves by not practicing our faith too. No matter where we are in our growth-infantile or mature- we are called to practice it because it brings more growth too. When we are challenged by someone, we should study and search for answers to give. When we are challenged we should love the other person no matter how their challenged was presented and how much we disagree. Thus, we grow instead of staying starved, plus we fulfill the commission we were given.

You may be asking, how does all this really equal hating someone? Several years ago a video surfaced of the comedian and atheist Penn Gillette who was touched by someone giving him a Bible. His words resonate still today as he equates a lack of sharing to hatred toward another. The fact remains that we show the greatest act of love by introducing them to the One who can save them, bring them new life, and change their heart. Even more, to believe that someone is destined to a place that separates them from God eternally, a place that is for punishment of sin, then our hearts must be inclined to share. Please note I said share, not save. Salvation belongs to Jesus as He works in the person's heart, but our call is to share the good news. 

Wednesday, March 9, 2016

Restoring Leadership pt. 1

 

I've taken quite a hiatus from blogging. I needed to focus on ministry and simply spending time with God without thinking, "How could I blog about this?" Through that time, I've been reading a "church leadership" book and studying through Nehemiah. With so many books on being a leader, I wanted to see from Scripture what characteristics a leader or how one should lead looks like. I think I found myself needing to restore my own leadership as a minister. Nehemiah is where I found myself. So, I will be giving my insights on leadership that I have discovered in the book of Nehemiah. Nothing groundbreaking, earth shattering, do these 5 steps and you will have the perfect ministry type of insights. I simply think we can get caught up in the hundreds of books about leadership or try to find the quick steps to building the best ministry and miss it all together. Or we simply get in a rut and do not even see we are simply maintaining something and not actually leading.

Restoring Leadership Begins By Seeking God Before the Work
I cannot count the number of times I have crafted an "awesome" message for teenagers or planned the best event ever expecting to see the greatest responses by students since the Billy Graham days only to find that it was just another thing. I remember once planning to be a speaker for a youth "revival" for a mission trip I was a part of. I was hearing that we should see a couple hundred students and it will be great. I was pumped and I took so much time crafting my message that seeking God was an afterthought. So the time came and besides my handful of students on the trip with me, we had about five youth show up. I was devastated, angry at God for the work I put into this and only to find my work was in vain. How arrogant of me! God used that to teach me a valuable lesson in humility as a leader and to know who truly is the Leader.

Our story begins with a man who faces a problem. His people have been taken from their homeland for years. Their city is is ruins and it seems God has left them. Nehemiah is struck at the heart by the situation and desires for change. The people of God have likely become a little complacent and comfortable with their lives. So, Nehemiah in his distress and desire to see things made right jumps right into a plan, reads some books about leading a nation back, and gets some people to help along the way. No! Nehemiah 1:4 says, "When I heard these words, I sat down and wept and mourned for days; and I was fasting and praying before the God of heaven."

When is the last time you (I include myself) actually wept and mourned for our people we lead? In the SBC we are "concerned" for declining and plateauing churches, missionaries being brought home from the field because money is no longer available, and students losing faith after high school. I put concerned in quotations because I wonder how concerned we are. I see new books, programs, and blogs about how to fix the problem; yet the problem remains. Where is the call to weep, mourn, fast, and pray for our state of affairs? If we are called by our leaders, how much to we really heed the call? Leaders, how are we giving the call to our people? First, it begins with us being broken by reality and the Spirit of God. I'm guilty as many who feel bad for a day about something then move on. Its almost like we have spiritual ADD and the next "fix" grabs our attention, but does not actually provide a solution. Nehemiah wept and mourned for days...days! Jesus said, "Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs in the kingdom of heaven." (Matt. 5:1). Mostly we prescribed this Beatitude to being spiritually broken for the sake of salvation. Yet, brokenness is a characteristic of the believer because it's foundation is in humility. Humility is a great reminder of how little we really know, how strong we really are, and how much we entirely rely on a God greater than us. In leadership, we can forget about God and unintentionally (sometime intentionally) "dethrone" Him and place ourselves on a throne of our kingdom. So, no matter what we face as leaders- change in the church, backlash from the community or culture, spiritual attack, etc. we must first remember that God is ultimately leading us and the people under our care.

In the midst of his mourning and weeping, Nehemiah also prays and fasts, again for days. Tied greatly to humility, the act of prayer and fasting as a leader is critical. It first places us under God and should remind us who He is and who we are. Also, seeking God first through prayer and fasting keeps us from being tossed to and fro by the next big way to lead. It keeps us from trying to find the church that is doing it "right" and imitating them or deciding what we think is best for our churches. Prayer and fasting means we seek God's vision, plan, heart, and strength for the tasks at hand. For example, Doug Fields is one of the best Student Minister's in the field. He's written books, spoken at conferences, and led many younger Student Minister's along the way. There is nothing wrong with that, but what was successful for him may not be at my church or yours. Seeking godly council is important, but seeking the God who knows our churches, communities, and the future is by far greater! Leader, what is the vision of your church? What is the plan to achieve that vision? Is it Tim Keller's? Andy Stanley's? Mark Dever's? Thom Rainer's? Missional guy with thick rimmed glasses, skinny jeans, a beard, and rocks a flannel shirt from the Catalyst Conference? They all offer great help and insight into church leadership, but they are not the source of ultimate truth for our leadership!! I encourage us to start anything we are leading our people in to pray and fast. Not for a few hours, not for even a day. Follow Nehemiah's example that is found in the source of all truth-Scripture- and take days to seek God.

The result of Nehemiah's faithfulness to seek God was a vision, plan, and the means to accomplish the goal. It was not easy and required incredible amounts of hard work, but blessing was received. In addition, a people were led to do incredible things-life changing things that impacted who they were and those around them. This is what I want to see happen!! So, I am determined to take more concerted time and effort to prayer and fasting in my leadership as a minister, husband, father, friend, etc. Will you?


Monday, February 15, 2016

Something's Missing



The Joy of the Redeemed (King David Dancing)

I attended a concert last night where we heard things like- I'm Turn't Up, Why y'all scared to be different, I'm unashamed, etc. Lecrae is notorious for his passion for Jesus, music, family, and the gospel being reached to people. His energy is seen on stage and is always felt in the audience...well usually. I've been to roughly 6 or 7 of his shows now and typically end up leaving in sweat from the jumping around/dancing (I mean rhythmic movement) as we enjoy the music and message being displayed. Last night, there were pockets of this happening, but overall it was rather dull. It looked like most worship services I attend on Sunday. Standing, watching someone perform as we halfheartedly participate. I suspect that venue, culture, and audience had much to do with the atmosphere of the night. But, what if it didn't? What if what I saw were people who have lost the joy of salvation;  the undignified aspects of worship that can come about? The pictures above are of David dancing undignified before the Lord as He is overjoyed by God and His work. Jeremiah 31:3-4 it states,

"Long ago the Lord said to Israel:
“I have loved you, my people, with an everlasting love.
    With unfailing love I have drawn you to myself. 
 I will rebuild you, my virgin Israel.
    You will again be happy
    and dance merrily with your tambourines.

The people of God are a people known of joy in the salvation of God and sometimes that manifests in praise even praise through dancing. I am not saying that worship services should become something undignifed and look like that scene from the Blues Brothers:

What I am thinking is what if our young people now cannot even express incredible joy of salvation in an environment where it is typically expected? What does that mean for our worship services? I understand that the Spirit moves people to worship and that we don't actually create it for people. I know that we can make environments places where this type of expression can take place. But more so, do we teach our people how to show the joy of our salvation? Do we regulate it to what we deem "appropriate"? 

I know everyone expresses their passion for the Lord differently. I typically do not raise my hands or jump around in a worship service. But if you sit next to me close enough you probably hear me. I sing loud as an expression of my worship. Not sure why, but that's how I express my passion in worship. I encourage you to be expressive in your worship of God. Who He is and what He has done is incredibly powerful and amazing; why suppress ourselves to show anything less than joy?

Maybe what I see is nothing, maybe there is something there. I just know that I am becoming increasingly tired of passive, disengaged, joyless expression of our Lord and the salvation He brings in all manners of life specifically in worship. This is not happening everywhere, but I feel like I sense it more and more.